In today’s ever-evolving business landscape, technical skills and experience alone are no longer sufficient to drive success. Emotional intelligence (EI), the ability to recognise, understand, and manage our own emotions and those of others, has become a critical factor in effective leadership, collaboration, and overall workplace well-being. As workplaces become more dynamic and people-focused, the value of emotional intelligence cannot be overstated. In all sectors, we are seeing a need for leaders and manager to develop their EI to be able to effectively lead and manage their teams.
Understanding Emotional Intelligence
Daniel Goleman, a renowned psychologist and author, has been a pivotal figure in bringing the concept of emotional intelligence to the forefront of business and leadership discussions. Goleman defines emotional intelligence as “the capacity for recognising our own feelings and those of others, for motivating ourselves, and for managing emotions well in ourselves and in our relationships”. He identifies five key components of emotional intelligence: self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills. We think about this model as it’s two camera angles – our own and the view of others and it’s important we develop both.

Self-awareness involves recognising our own emotions and how they affect our thoughts and behaviour. Self-regulation is about managing our emotions in healthy ways, taking initiative, and adapting to changing circumstances. Motivation refers to our drive to achieve goals for reasons beyond external rewards. Empathy is the ability to understand the emotions of others, and social skills involve managing relationships to move people in desired directions.
The Role of Emotional Intelligence in Leadership
Effective leadership in the modern workplace requires more than just strategic thinking and decision-making skills. It demands a high level of emotional intelligence. Leaders with high EI are better equipped to handle stress, communicate effectively, and inspire their teams. As Goleman aptly puts it, “Leadership is not domination, but the art of persuading people to work toward a common goal”.
Brené Brown, a research professor and author known for her work on vulnerability, courage, and empathy, echoes this sentiment. She states,
“Leadership is about courage. It’s about finding the courage to show up and have difficult conversations, to take risks and embrace change”.
Brown’s emphasis on vulnerability and empathy highlights the importance of creating a work environment where employees feel valued and understood.
The Impact of Emotional Intelligence on UK Businesses
The positive impact of emotional intelligence on businesses is well-documented. Research has shown that companies that prioritise emotional intelligence outperform those that do not. For instance, a study conducted at a Motorola manufacturing site found that employees who underwent stress management and EI training were 93% more productive. Additionally, Google’s research into effective teams identified psychological safety (Project Aristotle), a key aspect of emotional intelligence, as the most crucial factor for team success.
Importantly, In the UK, the benefits of emotional intelligence are particularly significant. A compilation of studies by Rutgers University researcher Cary Cherniss found that emotional competencies such as cooperation, accurate self-assessment, optimism, and the ability to handle stress led to greater productivity, job satisfaction, and worker retention. These findings are supported by a management survey conducted by the Roffey Park Institute, which highlighted a leadership gap in UK organisations that could be addressed by developing and applying emotional intelligence.
Enhancing Workplace Well-being and Collaboration
A workplace that values emotional intelligence fosters a culture of psychological safety and respect. Employees feel heard, appreciated, and supported, which directly impacts morale, engagement, and retention. Therefore, when managers take the time to recognise emotions and offer support, employees are more likely to stay committed and contribute to a positive work environment. As Goleman notes, “Empathic, emotionally intelligent work environments have a good track record of increasing creativity, improving problem-solving, and raising productivity”.
Moreover, emotional intelligence empowers individuals to communicate clearly, listen actively, and show empathy—all essential ingredients for successful teamwork. In diverse, multicultural workplaces, EI bridges gaps in communication styles and perspectives, reducing conflicts and building trust. Brown emphasises the importance of empathy in leadership, stating, “Empathy is not just something that happens to us. Empathy is an action that we take”.
Practical Steps to Develop Emotional Intelligence in Organisations
Developing emotional intelligence within an organisation requires a strategic and sustained effort. Here are some practical steps that can help:
- Implement training programs: Offer workshops and training sessions focused on developing the core components of EI, such as self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, and social skills. These programs can include role-playing scenarios, mindfulness exercises, and feedback sessions to help employees practice and refine their EI skills
- Encourage self-reflection: Promote activities that encourage self-reflection, such as journaling or mindfulness meditation. These practices help individuals become more aware of their emotions and how they influence their behaviour
- Foster a feedback-rich environment: Create a culture where constructive feedback is regularly given and received. Encourage managers and employees to provide feedback that is specific, actionable, and focused on behaviours rather than personal attributes
- Promote empathy and active listening: Train employees in active listening techniques and encourage them to practice empathy in their interactions. This can involve exercises that focus on understanding and validating others’ perspectives and emotions
- Develop mentorship programs: Establish mentorship programs where more experienced employees can guide others in developing their EI. Mentors can provide support, share their experiences, and offer advice on managing emotions and building strong relationships
- Encourage team building activities: Organise team building activities that promote collaboration, trust, and open communication. These activities can help employees build stronger interpersonal connections and improve their social skills
- Lead by example: Leaders should model emotionally intelligent behaviours, such as showing empathy, managing stress effectively, and communicating openly. When leaders demonstrate high EI, it sets a standard for the rest of the organisation to follow
- Provide resources and support: Offer resources such as books, articles, and online courses on emotional intelligence. Additionally, provide access to coaching or counselling services for employees who may need extra support in developing their EI
By implementing these practical steps, organisations can create a work environment that values and nurtures emotional intelligence. This, in turn, leads to improved employee well-being, better teamwork, and enhanced organisational performance.
Next Steps
Finally, emotional intelligence is a vital component of modern leadership and workplace success. By recognising and managing our own emotions and understanding those of others, we can create a more harmonious, productive, and innovative work environment. The insights of Daniel Goleman and Brené Brown underscore the importance of empathy, vulnerability, and emotional awareness in fostering effective leadership and collaboration.
As UK businesses continue to navigate the complexities of the modern workplace, prioritising emotional intelligence will be key to unlocking greater performance and team harmony. By investing in EI training and development, organisations can enhance employee well-being, improve retention rates, and drive long-term success.
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